Rediscover the Power of Rites of Passage
A transformational weekend for coming-of-age boys and their fathers.
Step back, reconnect, and transform—this weekend could change your life forever.
Throughout human history, communities have gathered to guide boys into manhood through intentional and powerful Rites of Passage. Today, much of this critical tradition has been lost, leaving boys without the guidance they need—and we’re all feeling the impact.
At EVRYMAN, we’re reclaiming this tradition. Adapted to our modern way of life and designed to appeal to families from any background, this accessible experience will help lead the next generation of men into a future of strength, purpose, and connection.
We invite you to join us:
Date : Feb 7-9th, 2025
What You Will Experience
Expert Facilitation
Young men will be guided by a team with over 120 years of combined experience in supporting boys and men. These are not just experts—they are fathers, mentors, and leaders who know the path.
Transformative Challenges
Over 24 hours, boys will engage in activities that test their strength, emotions, and resilience, from primitive camping and fire-building to ice baths and deep nature connection.
Parallel Growth for Men
While the boys embark on their intensive, parents or mentors will undergo their own journey, building the foundation to guide their boys into manhood.
"Boys everywhere have a need for rituals marking their passage to manhood. If society does not provide them, they will inevitably create their own." - Joseph Campbell
A Journey for Fathers and Sons (and mothers too)
In today’s society, we are amidst a known crisis among boys and young men. Increasingly disconnected from traditional sources of guidance, support, and identity, many boys are struggling to find their place and live a life of meaning. This crisis manifests in various troubling ways, including rising rates of mental health issues, disengagement from education, and a lack of positive male role models. As a result, the transition from boyhood to manhood has become fraught with ambiguity and uncertainty, leaving many men of all ages adrift in a world that often fails to provide the structure and support they need to thrive.
Historically, rites of passage have played a crucial role in guiding boys through this critical transition, offering them the opportunity to step into manhood with confidence, purpose, and a sense of belonging. These ceremonies, deeply embedded in various cultures worldwide, have traditionally marked the transition from adolescence to adulthood, providing boys with the tools and guidance they need to navigate the complexities of life as men. However, in modern Western society, many of these traditions have been lost or diminished, leaving a void in the lives of young men.
We believe that by reintroducing and scaling these important traditions, we can have a positive and dramatic effect on the current boy crisis. These rites of passage will offer boys the opportunity to connect with their inner strength, develop resilience, and gain a deeper understanding of what it means to be a man in today’s world. Our staff also works with fathers during the weekend, and with the mother figure via virtual training and Q&A.
The Power of Community and Connection
As the sun rises on the final day, the boys return to the circle—changed. You’ll witness their transformation and feel the bonds of a supportive community dedicated to the wellbeing of boys and men. Together, you’ll carry forward an experience that will be a touchstone for the rest of your lives.
Event Details
- Dates: February 7-9, 2025
- Location: Sovereignty Ranch Bandera, Texas
- Price: $1,975 per pair (boy and elder)
- Capacity: Limited to 13 pairs
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the "Rights of Passage" program?
The “Rights of Passage” program is a transformational weekend retreat designed for boys aged 12-15 and their mentors. It reclaims traditional rites of passage to help young men navigate the journey into manhood through intentional challenges, connection, and personal growth.
What activities are included in the retreat?
Participants engage in primitive camping, fire-building, ice baths, and deep nature connection exercises. These activities are designed to test physical, emotional, and mental resilience.
When and where is the next retreat scheduled?
The upcoming retreat is scheduled for February 7-9, 2025, at Sovereignty Ranch Bandera, Texas.
How many participants can attend the retreat?
The retreat is capped at 13 pairs (13 boys and 13 mentors) to ensure a personalized and impactful experience.
Are prior camping or outdoor experience required?
No prior experience is necessary. The program is designed to be accessible to all participants, regardless of their familiarity with outdoor activities.
What safety measures are in place during the retreat?
Safety is a top priority. The program is led by experienced facilitators, and all activities are carefully managed to ensure a safe environment for participants.
Is this program considered therapy?
No, this program is not therapy. The facilitators have experience as wilderness therapy guides, and the program can be therapeutic, but it is not therapy, and the facilitators are not trained therapists.
Are Rites of Passage considered cultural misappropriation?
No, this program honors the traditions of Rites of Passage found in many cultures and does not misappropriate ceremonies or practices specific to any ethnic or Native American tribe.
Can additional family members or friends attend the retreat?
This program is specifically designed for one-on-one mentor-mentee pairs. Additional family members or friends cannot attend, ensuring a focused and impactful experience for each participant.
Who can participate in this program?
The program is for boys aged 12-15 accompanied by a mentor, who could be a father, grandfather, uncle, or another significant male figure in their life.
What is the role of mentors during the retreat?
Mentors embark on a parallel journey during the retreat. This process builds a foundation for guiding their mentees into manhood and fosters their own personal growth.
What is the cost of the program?
The price is $1,900 per pair, which includes one boy and one mentor.
What should participants bring to the retreat?
A detailed packing list will be provided upon registration, including camping gear, appropriate clothing, and personal essentials.
How can I register for the program?
You can register for the retreat through the EVRYMAN website or by contacting their program coordinators directly.
What is the cancellation or refund policy?
Cancellation and refund policies are outlined during the registration process. Please review these details or contact EVRYMAN for specific information.
Is this a religious program?
No, EVRYMAN is not a religious organization and has no affiliation with any religion. The program is spiritual but completely asecular.
What makes this program unique?
The program combines ancient traditions with modern wilderness challenges, offering a transformative experience for both boys and their mentors. It emphasizes connection, personal growth, and the transition into manhood in a supportive and intentional environment.
How is this program different from other youth development programs?
The “Rights of Passage” program uniquely integrates the mentor-mentee relationship, physical challenges, and emotional growth into a cohesive experience. It fosters connection, resilience, and a deeper understanding of what it means to transition into manhood.