Now it’s time to get down to business!
The simple process you exercised the last two days — getting clear on what you feel and what you want — it has a natural next step.
It’s to take a risk and take action.
It’s often the case that what you want most in life is often very scary to truly go after.
In fact, being aware of fear as you take action is a sign that YOU ARE MOVING IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION.
Go back to your list of wants from the last lesson.
Look them over and find the one that sticks out to you the most. It should literally jump off the page.
No matter how big or small it is, it’s the one to focus on.
Now write 5 steps that will bring you closer to having that want fulfilled. Write them in order: what’s the first, second, third step, etc. Here’s an example…
Biggest want: I want a relationship that works and feels good.
Step 1: End my current relationship because it’s not working.
Step 2: Find a therapist or coach to learn what I need to know.
Step 3: Get clear on what I won’t fall for.
Step 4: Get online and get out there.
Step 5: Communicate fully with my future partner.
Find an accountability buddy to hold you to this.
This is what you really want. Go get it.
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